Single men and pornography
I am so thankful that I did not grow up in the age of Internet pornography! In my day, if you wanted to see porn you had to go to the local 7/11 and ask for it in person. That was easily a big enough deterrent to me not buying or seeing porn. Now all you have to do is shut the door and hope no one you know comes in and sees you! Check out my podcast interview conducted by Luke Gilkerson from Covenant Eyes to hear this topic unpacked more thoroughly.
How porn can cripple a marriage – a podcast with Covenant Eyes
Alright! My last post on the issue of porn and marriage has created quite the stir! I love a healthy debate and I appreciate all the people posting comments, even the ones I do not agree with. Here is part two of my interview with Covenant Eyes' Luke Gilkerson. I hopefully unpack in a logical and understanding way how porn hurts a couple and their ability to experience legitimate intimacy.
Should couples watch pornography together?
You might be thinking this question is ridiculous and absurd, but it is not. I've run in to enough couples in my life as a Marriage Consultant (This is my new term, I love it, but what do you think?) who ask this very question. Sometimes I am the one who has to bring to their attention that it is not healthy or okay to watch pornography with each other. I hear them say, "What's the big deal if we are watching it together?" My response? "What's the big deal if you two go and murder ...
Marriage Tip: Is it good enough?
How is your marriage? Is it just good enough? On a scale from 1 to 10 (1 being miserable and 10 being awesome) where would you rank your marriage today? Think seriously about these questions because they are important to the overall satisfaction of your marriage. If you do not know where you are, how will you ever get anywhere? Couples do not ask each other enough where their marriage is on a scale from 1 to 10. No matter where your rank is, do not panic, just take note of the score and then ask what needs to happen for ...
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How cute is this! Or is it neglectful?
I had to turn on the lights in our family room and get this shot of our daughter Reagan asleep on the couch with our dog, Fergie. I am a bad dad for leaving my daughter on the couch, especially since my wife just repainted her room at our daughters... read more
Posted: July 2, 2009 at 9:30 pm - no comments
Single men and pornography
I am so thankful that I did not grow up in the age of Internet pornography! In my day, if you wanted to see porn you had to go to the local 7/11 and ask for it in person. That was easily a big enough deterrent to me not buying or seeing porn. Now... read more
Posted: July 2, 2009 at 8:36 am - no comments
How porn can cripple a marriage – a podcast with Covenant Eyes
Alright! My last post on the issue of porn and marriage has created quite the stir! I love a healthy debate and I appreciate all the people posting comments, even the ones I do not agree with. Here is part two of my interview with Covenant Eyes’... read more
Posted: July 1, 2009 at 12:25 pm - 5 comments
Should couples watch pornography together?
You might be thinking this question is ridiculous and absurd, but it is not. I’ve run in to enough couples in my life as a Marriage Consultant (This is my new term, I love it, but what do you think?) who ask this very question. Sometimes I am... read more
Posted: June 30, 2009 at 7:58 am - 10 comments
Marriage Tip: Is it good enough?
How is your marriage? Is it just good enough? On a scale from 1 to 10 (1 being miserable and 10 being awesome) where would you rank your marriage today? Think seriously about these questions because they are important to the overall satisfaction... read more
Posted: June 29, 2009 at 4:01 pm - 2 comments
A big happy birthday song for Amy’s 29th birthday!
Yes, I know that Amy is not 29, but she’s more beautiful today than 8 years ago (oops, just gave away her age)! Happy birthday my love! swfobject.embedSWF("http://www.youtube.com/v/41X7dMrd5XI&rel=0&fs=1&showsearch=0&showinfo=0",... read more
Posted: June 28, 2009 at 3:56 pm - 2 comments
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