The irresistible single

If you are single and want to be irresistible, then what does it take to get noticed?  What are the most important qualities of an irresistible person - a virtual love magnet?  Keep on reading and discover the qualities of an irresistible single:

 

1. An irresistible single puts the needs of others ahead of their own.  In other words, you are the servants of servants.  Nothing is more attractive to someone than the heart of a servant.  When you genuinely care for the needs of others, they can’t help but be pulled toward you.  Now, this is not about serving so you can get what you want, but rather an authentic attitude of servanthood that follows the words of Christ.
2. An irresistible single is someone who listens.  A great listener has the ability to tune out other distractions and focus on the words and feelings behind the words that the speaker is sharing.  A great listener asks clarifying questions to make sure he or she understands the speaker.  Your body language says, “I’m genuinely interested in what you are saying.”  A great listener doesn’t try to solve what the speaker is saying, unless the speaker has asked for a solution.
3. An irresistible single is comfortable being single.  You do not have to be married, you would like to, but you do not have to.  Nothing is more unattractive than a single who is desperate.  When you become desperate, you are sabotaging your chance for true love because no one worth marrying is interested in someone who is desperate. So be happy about being single and patiently wait for the right person to come along.

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